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Marilyn Forsling
April 25, 1939 - November 20, 2016

Marilyn Forsling

Marilyn Forsling
Apr 25, 1939 - Nov 20, 2016

Marilyn Forsling
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Marilyn R. Forsling passed away on November 20, 2016 from complications related to multiple sclerosis. She was 77.

Marilyn was born on April 25, 1939 in Odebolt, Iowa to Harry and Nell (Kennedy) Sommers. She graduated from Odebolt-Arthur High School in 1957 and attended Morningside College in Sioux City, where she earned a bachelor's degree in music. She married Don Forsling in 1962. They lived in Iowa City and Chicago during the early years of their marriage. While in Chicago, Marilyn held a variety of interesting jobs: substitute teacher in the Chicago public schools, ad coordinator at WGN-TV and secretary for an attorney purported to be Jimmy Hoffa's lawyer. Following the infamous Chicago blizzard of February 1967, the couple moved to Ames where daughter Karen was born that October. Son Carl was welcomed to the family in July 1973. Marilyn and Don divorced amicably in 1987 after 25 years of marriage.

Marilyn's great passion was music. She joyfully shared her musical gifts as both a piano teacher to countless children and as music director at St. John's Episcopal Church. Longtime parishioners still remember her beautiful rendition of "O Holy Night," which she sang every year at Christmas Eve services.

Marilyn lived with MS for 21 years, a relentless disease that robbed her of the activities she loved most - taking long walks, singing in the choir, playing piano and reading mysteries. Through it all, she faced her health challenges with tremendous courage and grace. She could have easily and understandably complained but instead she would say how lucky she was to not have pain. When the time came for a wheelchair, she continued to embrace life and contribute to her community, working for a few years as a greeter at Hy-Vee.

Marilyn is survived by her daughter Karen and son Carl, grandchildren Spencer and Amelia, as well as many nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents and stepmother Hazel (Carlson) Sommers; and her siblings James Sommers, Marjorie Heikens, Eileen Follett, Jean Gehlen and Thomas Sommers.

Her family would like to extend their deepest gratitude to the staff at Bethany Manor in Story City for the love and excellent care they gave Marilyn during her many years of residence and especially in her final weeks and days. "My team" and "my girls," as she called her devoted caregivers, brought Marilyn much happiness and comfort, and were an important part of her journey toward peace.

A memorial service will be held on Monday, Dec. 19, 2016 at 1:30 p.m. at St. John's by the Campus at 2338 Lincoln Way in Ames.

Online condolences may be directed to: www.grandonfuneralandcremationcare.com

Gary Follett on Dec 20, 2016

CandleMy fondest memory of Marilyn was the time when she lived with us in Sioux City. She tried her best to teach me the piano. I wish now that I had put more into it, though I still have a strong love of the great masters thanks in part to her influence.

She was one of those people who had the traits of a person you wanted to be with. Her always positive attitude was infectious, even in the face of her illness.

While I have not seen her in many years, her departure from this life saddens me deeply. A really neat, beautiful person is no longer with us...

Tracey Stoll on Nov 30, 2016

CandleI did not know Marilyn, but I read about her life in Grandons' obituary. While I read it, a beautiful guitar version of "Oh Holy Night" just happened to be playing on my stereo. I am so sorry for all of you that you have lost a dear soul who struggled in her life. I hope that she is in a much better place, where her gifts are soaring. Blessings to you.

Tracey Stoll

Karen Forsling on Nov 30, 2016

jean thomas on Nov 30, 2016

I will ALWAYS remember you, dear friend--dear friend with such a warm, generous heart. Remembering our heart-to-heart coffees, our joyful, long walk/talks with me trying to keep up with your long legs, and your deep love for Karen and Carl. A part of you will be with me always, and I'm so grateful for your friendship.

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St Johns By the Campus Episcopal Church
2338 Lincoln Way
Ames, Iowa 50014
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