\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while and leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never the same.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d _ Unknown
I count Gene and Margy Chamberlin among the most important people in my life \u00e2\u20ac“ people who helped mold me into the adult I ultimately became. I was honored to be chosen as the Mobridge Tribune intern for the summer of 1985. I had arranged to sublease an apartment, but it wouldn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t be available for several weeks. So, Gene and Margy graciously took me into their home. It was the start of a treasured friendship and a lifelong respect for Gene and Margy as individuals \u00e2\u20ac“ and for Gene and Margy as a couple.
Gene taught me the importance of community newspapers and how to produce one each week. I can still almost feel my disbelief and disappointment when he calmly, but firmly, told me we couldn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t print any of the photos I had shot at the powwow in Little Eagle because I hadn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t taken the time or made the effort to identify the subjects in my photos. Lesson learned \u00e2\u20ac“ the hard way. There were many more yet to learn. All were valuable and all of them helped shape who I became as a journalist and as a person.
In their home, Gene and Margy modeled respect, love and a genuine appreciation for and friendship with one another. They, along with Cathy and Steve, included me in their family life. The day I drove my 1972 Ford Galaxy 500 east out of Mobridge to head back for my senior year at South Dakota State University was difficult, to say the least. Three times between Mobridge and Redfield, I had to pull over to the side of the road because I was crying so hard I couldn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t see.
I was blessed to maintain my friendship with the Chamberlins and even more blessed to have them living in Brookings when my husband, Dave, and I moved back there in June 1995. I started graduate school at SDSU and of course, I took Gene\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s newspaper management class. It was great fun and again there were many lessons learned. Gene and Dave golfed in a league together. And, when Gene and Margy\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s granddaughter, Sarah, would come to visit, she enjoyed pulling our young sons, Will, and Beau, in their wagon.
Henry David Thoreau said: \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Let your life speak.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d Gene did just that. His legacy lives on in journalism, in the countless journalists he spawned and supported, and in his friends and family. I know that Margy, Steve and Mary, Cathy, Doug and Sarah will be forever proud.