Michael Durlam, age 84, of Ames, Iowa passed away at Israel Family Hospice House in Ames on Saturday, November 24, 2018. A gathering of family and friends will be held 4-6:00 p.m. on Friday, November 30, 2018, at Grandon Funeral and Cremation Care, 414 Lincoln Way, Ames, Iowa. A celebration of life memorial service will be 1:00 p.m. on Saturday, December 1, 2018, at First United Methodist Church, 516 Kellogg Ave, Ames, Iowa.
Mike was born in Jefferson, Iowa, on October 1, 1934, the son of Michael and Faye Durlam. He was raised in Jefferson, graduating from Jefferson High School. He attended American Institute of Business (AIB) in Des Moines. He married Jo Ann Bullard on June 24, 1956, in Jefferson, Iowa. He served in the Iowa Air National Guard for 8 years, and also worked at Durlam & Durlam Clothing in Jefferson with his brother Loran. In 1964, Mike opened Durlam & Durlam Clothing in Ames and continued there until his retirement in 2000. Mike was very involved in the Ames Community. He was a prominent member of the Downtown Betterment Committee. He was an avid Cyclone fan and a Cyclone Ambassador, where he and Jo would host football players in a "home away from home" program. He was a longtime member of the First United Methodist Church. Mike was also involved in Golden K Kiwanis. Above all else, he loved his wife and family as they were always number one in his eyes.
Mike is survived by his wife Jo; his daughters Ann (Richard) Sandve; and Sara (Bruce) Westemeyer; grandchildren Erica (Andrew) Tinius and their son Xavier; Nate Sandve, Ryan Westemeyer, and Ross Westemeyer; a brother Wendell Durlam; two sisters Lois Veach and Mary Lynch; and many nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents and six siblings.
Memorials may be directed to: First United Methodist Church 516 Kellogg Ave. Ames, Iowa, 50010.
Online condolences may be directed to: wwwgrandonfuneralandcremationcare.com.
Thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. May your memories bring you comfort.
Rae Ann (Terrones) Berg-Karas
Your Dad has lived a very long and joyful life and we are so blessed to have your family as part of our family. May God grant him eternal rest and peace. Love to all.
Our hearts hurt for all of you. Mike will be missed.
Chuck and Sue Kelsey
My heart goes out to you and all your family on your loss. May God bring you comfort, and may Mike's memory be a blessing to all. Sheila Kraemer
Jo and family,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. Dave was a wonderful husband and father. Blessings and hugs, with love Jackie and Ron Smith
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, so sorry for your loss.
A good man with a kind heart. Our prayers are with all of you! Kelly and Gary Hendrick
My love and prayers to all of you for your loss. Sue Heath
May God watch over you during this difficult and challenging time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.
Vanessa and Hap Guirguis
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